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You Cannot Beat Nature


January 9th, 2009 · Business, Economics, and Finance, Dating and Relationships

This would be extremely funny if it were not so depress­ing:

Many peo­ple like to stop and play with new­born babies, but now some adult women are play­ing house with fake babies.

Some women are even going as far as tak­ing day trips with the fake babies to the park, out to eat, and even host­ing birth­day par­ties for them…

These women are pay­ing big bucks for this hobby, from $100 to a few thou­sand dol­lars. For Reborn owner Lachelle Moore, the fake babies fill a void…

In her Kansas City home, Moore even has an elab­o­rate room for the dolls. She orga­nizes birth­day par­ties, bakes a cake and even invites guests.

Psy­chol­o­gists say there could be a prob­lem if and when these women stop inter­act­ing socially with oth­ers in their life.

As I observed in a lengthy essay on mod­ern rela­tions between the gen­ders, sin­gle women are remain­ing alone for longer and longer peri­ods of time. Some inten­tion­ally focus on their careers and edu­ca­tions through­out their twen­ties and thir­ties, but oth­ers have become increas­ingly picky as a result of their suc­cesses in a post-feminist world. (Women tend to desire to date “up,” and no female CEO will marry some­one who is a plumber or in mid­dle management.)

But, for women, remain­ing alone costs a psy­cho­log­i­cal price, whether they do so inten­tion­ally or not. Nature tells women to find a part­ner and have chil­dren, so they will seek to ful­fill this bio­log­i­cal and evo­lu­tion­ary imper­a­tive through other means if they do not in through “tra­di­tional” means. I have seen many twen­tysome­thing women with small dogs and cats, but I sup­pose rais­ing fake babies is the next step towards an evo­lu­tion­ary dead end. (There is one excep­tion: Women who are unable to bear or adopt chil­dren. I do sym­pa­thize with them.)

Fem­i­nism has helped women in many obvi­ous ways, but like every social move­ment, it has had many unin­tended and unforseen consequences.