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Teenage Sex


April 20th, 2009 · Culture and Entertainment, Dating and Relationships, Europe, Israel and the Middle East, Judaism, Media and Journalism, Religion, World Affairs

RISHON LEZION, Israel — Teenagers here are much more, well, Puri­tan than their West­ern coun­ter­parts:

The rate of Israeli high school stu­dents hav­ing sex­ual inter­course has risen steadily over the past few years, espe­cially among female stu­dents, a new study pub­lished in the offi­cial jour­nal of the Inter­na­tioanl Acad­emy of Sex Research suggests…

Accord­ing to the sur­vey, over a third of 12th-grade girls and half the boys in the 12th grade engage in full sex­ual relations…

The research team points out that Israeli teenagers would still be con­sid­ered nearly puri­tan by mod­ern West­ern stan­dards. In the UK, 63% of boys and 64% of girls under 18 say they have had sex­ual inter­course. In the US, 75% of boys and 63% of girls report­edly do the same.

In a prior post in my Let­ters from Israel series, I dis­cussed the para­dox­i­cal nature of sex and fem­i­nism in Israel. While Israelis are much more open about sex than peo­ple in the West­ern world, they are gen­er­ally not as promiscuous.

The longer that I live apart from Amer­i­can cul­ture, the more I real­ize how sex­u­al­ized the United States has become. Now, when I am with friends in a bar that shows MTV, I am embar­rassed by what I see. It is lit­tle won­der that Israelis — along with most of the world — stereo­type Amer­i­can, female, tourists as naive sluts. When I lived in Jerusalem, I liked the fact that nearly every­one dressed mod­estly. Girls rarely wear miniskirts and reveal­ing tops even here in the cen­ter of Israel, where peo­ple are gen­er­ally sec­u­lar. And do not for­get that it is extremely hot in the desert in the summer.

I read some­where that soci­eties tend to become more socially con­ser­v­a­tive dur­ing eco­nomic down­turns. Per­haps the reces­sion will help the United States in more ways than just encour­ag­ing peo­ple to redis­cover thrift and not pur­su­ing hap­pi­ness through materialism.