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Oppressed, Redundant Men


February 26th, 2010 · Dating and Relationships

JERUSALEM — The first of a five-part British doc­u­men­tary on the state of men and man­li­ness in a mod­ern, West­ern soci­ety through online-dating web­sites, Christian-dating web­sites, and an online-dating agency:

Men and mas­culin­ity are being mar­gin­alised. Manly virtues are laughed at, even con­sid­ered dys­func­tional. Men are being edged out of the fam­ily, the work­place and wider soci­ety as the game of life is increas­ingly played by women’s rules…”

And here are some news updates: A court ruled that an adul­ter­ous wife must receive child-support from the her hus­band even though the child was not his. Many divorced men — who did noth­ing wrong — must fight tooth-and nail in court to see their chil­dren more than a few times a month. Media out­lets use lan­guage — sub­con­sciously and unknow­ingly — to hide men and high­light women. A judge admits to giv­ing a woman a lesser sen­tence than a men would have received for the same crime.

A “Psy­chol­ogy Today” arti­cle praises a woman who killed her cheat­ing hus­band in front of their teenage daugh­ter — and received count­less sym­pa­thy from the media even though there would have been out­rage if the roles had been reversed. Male vic­tims of domes­tic vio­lence are ignored. An Aus­tralian law looks to crim­i­nal­ize some­thing called “eco­nomic abuse” in sep­a­rated fam­i­lies. Female teach­ers who have sex with stu­dents receive lighter sen­tences than men — when both should have the judi­cial books thrown at them.

And here is a col­lec­tion of anti-male adver­tise­ments and mes­sages that per­me­ate the media (see here as well):

Although, to be fair, I must note that the same is now occur­ring in Israeli com­mer­cials as well:

Enjoy. Although that’s prob­a­bly not the cor­rect term.

Ear­lier: When Men are Por­trayed as Idiots.

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